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    Valentine's inspiration

    • January 16, 2019
    • Written by The Love Den

    Another Valentine's is right around the corner, and everyone wants to have a memorable experience, but some times we all need some ideas...

    Have sex *before* dinner

    Think about it: you have a delicious glass of wine, and another, and another. Then the dinner, then the dessert, and all of a sudden it's midnight and you have work the next day. Full, buzzed, and exhausted aren't always the best circumstances for boning. So get it on before you leave for your date instead, and spend the rest of the meal basking in a sexy afterglow. And you know, more wine.

    Or better yet, get it on the next morning

    You shouldn't go into a holiday that's supposed to be fun all worked up over expectations of sex. If it doesn't naturally happen, that's okay! There's nothing quite like rolling over the next morning and whispering all the things you wish you had done last night into your partner's ear. (You can be a little late to work).

    Buy each other one new sexy item for the bedroom

    Be it a massage oil candle or a new vibrator, if your hope is to shake up your love making routine, commit to bringing one new thing to the bedroom.

    Do something fun, rather than sexy

    Some people are all about the candle-lit meal with the soft violin music, and if that's you, go for it! But if all the extra bells and whistles aren't really your style, it's easy to feel like you're forcing the ~romance~, which can leave you feeling anything but sexy. Instead, try an activity that focuses on togetherness and fun. Go bowling, see a movie, see a concert. An event that leaves you feeling connected might be more likely to inspire sexy times than a four-course dinner. Try doing something more casual. but include something naughty like bowling with vibrating panties, or hiking with naughty lingerie on!

    Spend the day sexting

    If you shoot off quick, sexy missives (or naughty selfies) of what you want to do to each other throughout the day, come night time you'll have a hot script of your own to act out. Plus the build-up of anticipation is unbearable in the best way.

     Whatever you decide to do on Valentine's, the most important bit of advice we can offer is to do something from your heart that is uniquely special to your partner. Even a small heartfelt effort will show you care and reap great rewards!